7 Years and Counting

Today is our anniversary. I know this sounds bad, but I can't believe we've made it seven years! Reason I say those words, in the beginning of any relationship it's hard. You have to work at it. Ours was just like that. Once the phase of "new love" wears off, your forced to figure out how to make your love work in the real world. Life is hard, love is hard. Finding balance is what makes it work. About 4 years ago our relationship moved into a new phase, one where it didn't take so much work, we found our groove and things began to fall into place. I appreciate knowing my partner in every way, no longer needing to play the guessing game. We've found a level of calmness, being comfortable with each other. I always say love is a struggle, but I wouldn't want to struggle with anyone else.

Tonight F and I are going to this very nice restaurant. I'm looking forward to spending time with F one on one, having a drink, and some great food! F and I love going to dinner, and we love love food. My parents are coming up tonight to watch Charlie while we go out. I'm a tad nervous. Mostly hoping Charlie behaves, and doesn't give them to much trouble. Charlie is very calm with my father, so I know it will be ok.