Family Drama

Family drama seems to be a constant thing in my life. Some weeks/days are worse than ever. Since last Friday it's been crazy in Amiee's world again. I have spoken of my older brother in past posts, he's made some great changes in his life this past year. He has a long way to go. How can you be 37 and not be able to balance your finances. He's always short of money, but has a great job he keeps bragging about. If the money is no longer going to drugs and alcohol then where the hell is it?!? I know families are supposed to take care of each other, help out when the going gets tough, my question is, where do you draw the line? When is enough? I have such a hard time backing away, when I do say "let them figure it out, it's a mess they have created" I always get screwed worse in the end. I'm bad at making excuses for people in my family, always defending, but lately I think I've reached my line, I can no longer make excuses for them, feel sorry, or pity. They have created the messes, and the choices they decide to make only makes life worse. I guess what I'm saying is, I'm done.....don't call because I will not listen to your sob story, will not give one more penny to you, will not feel sorry for the life created. If a 26 year old can have her life together so can a 37 year old, not to mention our parents.